No. 04 · Why me
I spent thirty years asking if I was the problem.
Eleven weeks old
Adopted. A belief written before I could talk: something is wrong with me.
My twenties
Drugs, steroids, sabotaged relationships. When you believe something's wrong with you, the loop makes sure you keep proving it.
The whole time
The outside kept improving. Trained as a therapist, built a career helping people perform. Outer success, same belief underneath.
Tracing it back
Found the belief underneath it all and traced it to a moment an eleven-week-old couldn't have caused. Changed what it meant, from within. The lens cleared.
Now
Life came back: energy, a clear sense of who I am, backing myself. Every shift came from someone seeing me clearly before I could see myself.
Fig. 4 · The therapist who needed therapy
Quest-trained Cognitive Hypnotherapist
Change at the level of the unconscious, where the belief actually lives.
Partner at Total Mental Performance
A seven-figure mental performance coaching company.
Hundreds of clients coached
More than five years of 1:1 work, from addiction recovery to mental performance.